The Relations

Continuously, we speak to control our behavior or our emotions, and make many things to control the nature or the behavior of the others, in the intention to neutralize what we call destructive antisocial and natural forces that appear of its autonomy In our patriarcal culture, we live in the diffidence of the autonomy of the others, and are in appropriating, the time all, of the right to decide what he is legitimate or they do not stop, in a continuous attempt to control its lives. In our patriarcal culture, we live in the hierarchy that demands obedience, affirming that a commanded coexistence requires authority and subordination, superiority and inferiority, power and atony or submission, and is always ready to treat all the relations, human beings or not, in these terms. Thus, we justify the competition, wants to say, a meeting of mutual negation, as way to establish the hierarchy of the privileges under the affirmation of that the competition promotes the social progress when allowing that optimum it appears and it prospers (Maturana, 1993, P. Learn more at: MetLife. 25). The patriarcais conceptions historical and are sufficiently taken root in our culture. Desconstruir them demand patience and knowledge. However, Sousa, Miguel and Lima (2010) suggest to create a practical Code of Attitudes that considers the theoretical recognition and of that children and adolescents are dived in contexts of violncias, therefore costumamos to disrespect its proper necessities. She is necessary also to understand that the violncias are complex phenomena and that we cannot look at them in reducionista way, what means ahead to reevaluate our position of the same ones, in order to desconstruir rooted conceptions of patriarcalismo, adultocentrismo and segregacionismo, that according to Sousa, Miguel and Lima (2010) is producentes of more violncias. The author in it still indicates to construct a sensible listening you say to them of the educandos so that its rights are recognized, as well as its history.